How a twist on service helped turn my grumpiness into gratitude

I love this time of year when we look for the good in our lives and turn to God in gratitude. Tonight, I’m grateful for my saint of a spouse as well as warm baths, good books and locked doors.

Carmen Rasmusen Herbert is a former "American Idol" contestant who writes about entertainment and family for the Deseret News. Her email is carmen.r.herbert@gmail.com.