When someone hurts you deeply, what do you do? If you answer yes to one of these 5 options you are destroying your life

We all have our go-to reactions when someone hurts us. Some of them are healthy, but some are destructive. If you choose one of these five options, you're hurting yourself and maybe even destroying your life.

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