Ashley Judd and Taylor Swift take a stand against sexism — who was right?

Yes, there are lots of men who are nasty-minded, who are playing at innocence but are really out there to attack and belittle women. But there are also wonderful, genuine and kind-hearted men who are sincere in their compliments and gestures.

Carmen Rasmusen Herbert is a former "American Idol" contestant who writes about entertainment and family for the Deseret News. Her email is