Can you say you love parenting? What an Instagram challenge helped me find out

This amazing little challenge has helped me to recognize that I have a choice in my attitude and behavior. I can choose to focus on the good. I can choose to respond with love, even in most difficult situations. I can choose to love parenting.

Carmen Rasmusen Herbert is a former "American Idol" contestant who writes about entertainment and family for the Deseret News. Her email is